Day 31: Clothe Yourself Well

A few years ago, I was participating occasionally in a weekly blog challenge to post my outfits for the week. The point of the challenge is to encourage stay-at-home-moms to get dressed and care well for our appearance, instead of staying in sweat pants all day every day.

The problem for me became that I was constantly obsessing about putting the perfect outfit together to showcase for the world (you know, all three of you who read my blog– hi mom!) I was caring a little too much about what I was putting on myself each day. I was considering too much what others would think of me based on my clothing choices.

About that time, I read 7 by Jen Hatmaker and one of her chapters is on clothing. It really shook something inside of me to realize my pride in my appearance– that I was spending too much time shopping for clothes, getting myself dressed, and gazing at myself in the mirror. I began to spend the time I was getting ready each morning praying instead of obsessing. I prayed that I would be clothed with Christ. I prayed for specific characteristics and qualities I wanted God to clothe me with for the day– like patience, compassion, love, and joy.

It was just the practice I needed to stop my self-pride and focus on getting myself ready for the day in the ways that matter most. I may have the cutest sweater, most trendy jeans and most perfect accessories on, but if I am not “clothed” spiritually, I am not ready to face the day!

Since God chose you to be the holy people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. (Colossians 3:12)

Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds us all together in perfect harmony. (Colossians 3:14)

Don’t be concerned about the outward beauty of fancy hairstyles, expensive jewelry, or beautiful clothes. You should clothe yourselves instead with the beauty that comes from within, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is so precious to God. (1 Peter 3:3-4)

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Day 30: Pray about Everything

When I was a very new mom fretting about starting my first baby on solids, I spoke with a veteran mom from church whom I very much admired. She shared her experiences with babies and solid food and encouraged me to pray about what food to start with and how to begin.

I have taken that advice to heart so many times over the years– praying about things others might deem small and worthless. Dropping naps, giving up pacifiers, solids, when to take a kid to the doctor, how to get to heart issues in correcting and disciplining my children, how to explain hard truths about life (like cancer and death)… the list could go on and on.

Paul would probably tell a new mom the same thing my friend told me:

Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. (Philippians 4:6)

Isn’t that just the perfect piece of advice for moms? Baby having trouble settling into sleep habits? Pray. Fever spiking again? Pray. Rash all over child’s skin? Pray. Starting solids? Pray. Teenager starting to drive? PRAY. Firstborn applying for college? Pray. Child having difficulty with friends/teacher/schoolwork? Pray. Son talking back when you ask him to do something? Pray. Daughter not wanting to share about something going on with a friend? Pray.

What are you worrying about today, mama? Don’t worry anymore, instead pray about it.

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Day 29: How to Get Fruit

soulcoffeegraphicBelievers should desire to live fruitful lives. But what does that mean? In John 15, Jesus likens us to branches who are supposed to bear fruit. He says that to bear fruit, we must remain attached to the vine (Him). (Also notice his warning in the first few verses!)

“1 I am the true grapevine, and my Father is the gardener. 2 He cuts off every branch of mine that doesn’t produce fruit, and he prunes the branches that do bear fruit so they will produce even more. 3 You have already been pruned and purified by the message I have given you. 4 Remain in me, and I will remain in you. For a branch cannot produce fruit if it is severed from the vine, and you cannot be fruitful unless you remain in me…”

So the first key to bearing fruit is to be attached to the vine.

But what exactly will our “fruit” look like? Clearly we are speaking in metaphor here because we aren’t going to sprout apples or pomegranates from our limbs. (Funny mental picture though.) Paul writes about the kinds of fruit that the Holy Spirit works to produce in us in his letter to the Galatians:

But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,  gentleness, and self-control. (Galatians 5:22-23)

So, once we are attached to, and remaining in the true vine, we can pray for these types of fruit to be manifested in our lives. As we allow the Holy Spirit to work in us, we will see the fruit!

Day 28: Count Your Blessings

photo (48)There is something that happens when we count our blessings. It seems to be the key to all Paul’s commands for us to rejoice and be thankful. How else do we find ourselves filling to capacity– and overflowing– with joy, than to do the work of noticing our blessings and giving thanks for them?

“Blessings” may be as small as little bodies snuggled close seeking comfort after bad dreams… fall bathing the trees in its glorious hues… a cup of hot coffee after an interrupted night’s sleep… a hot bath… new mercies arriving with the rising sun… answers to whispered prayers…

Taking the time to count them. To acknowledge them before God, somehow lifts the soul and fills with joy.

Try it today.

In everything give thanks; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus. 1 Thessalonians 5:18

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Day 26: Be Still

Most people can quote the beginning of Psalm 46:10, “Be still and know that I am God…”

The New American Standard version of the Bible states it a little differently:

Cease striving and know that I am God…

I love that. Doesn’t striving adequately describe what we do all day every day?

The second part of the verse is oft left unquoted but I think it’s a beautiful ending to the command to cease our striving.

Cease striving and know that I am God;
I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth.

We can be still. Stop striving. Settle down. Wait patiently. Because God is glorious and will be glorified. Amen.

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Day 25: Contentment

soulcoffeegraphicI’ve already confessed to you my great love for Valley of Vision. Today I want to share one of the prayers that has meant the most to me over the past few years. I first read it when we were choosing an apartment in Turkey and I was struggling with selfishness and entitlement.

I love that this prayer reminds us that the way to conquer a lust we have for something other than God. We can’t just overcome our lust by sheer willpower alone. We must replace it with Jesus, letting him fill the space with such awesome glory that the former lust becomes unimportant, even despised. And we can be content in Christ.

Heavenly Father,

If I should suffer need, and go unclothed, and be in poverty,
make my heart prize your love,
know it, be constrained by it,
though I be denied all blessings.
It is your mercy to afflict and try me with wants,
   for by these trials I see my sins,
   and desire to be rid of them.
Please help me willingly accept misery, sorrows, temptations,
if those things will help me feel sin as the greatest evil,
and be delivered from it with gratitude to you,
acknowledging this as the highest testimony of your love.
When your son, Jesus, came into my soul
he became more dear to me
than sin used to be;
his kindly rule replaced sin’s tyranny.
Teach me to believe that if I ever want to conquer any sin
   I must not only labor to overcome it,
   but must invite Christ to take its place,
   and he must become more valued to me
      than the vile lust had been;
that his sweetness, power, life may be there.
So I need to seek a grace from God that will oppose sin,
but I should not seek it as a thing on it’s own, apart from himself.
When I am afraid of evils to come,
please comfort me by showing me
that in myself I am a dying, condemned wretch,
but in Christ I am reconciled and live;
that in myself I find insufficiency and restlessness,
but in Christ there is satisfaction and peace;
that in myself I am feeble and unable to do good,
but in Christ I can do all things.
Though now I have his graces in part,
I shall shortly have them perfectly
in that state where you will show yourself fully reconciled,
and alone sufficient, efficient,
loving me completely,
with sin abolished.
O Lord, may that day come quickly!